Monday, September 28, 2015

17 Months


The big news from Audra's 17th month is that we all went on vacation for the first time since she was born :) And yes, I really am this far behind on posts, since it's nearly October and I'm just now writing about our vacation in July, but let's just ignore that fact...

Anyway, so we went on vacation with Ryan's family to Lake Gaston, which is about a 4-hour drive from our house. I have been worrying about that potentially tortuous 4 hours (each way!), locked in a car with screaming, crying children for months.... and the kids were great! Our non-car napping child (Audra) took good naps in the car both ways, and our motion sickness-prone child (Josie) didn't get sick either. There was minimal crying, with Audra just getting a bit fussy towards the end of each 2-hour segment (since we stopped halfway through both ways for food and to stretch our legs). They were both pleased to go to Chick-Fil-A on the way there - Josie since it's her favorite restaurant, Audra because there was randomly a pond in the parking lot full of DUCKS! Her favorite :)
 [Audra looking for more people to say hi to; she had designated herself the official greeter of the Ashland Chick-Fil-A]

She (and we) had a great time on vacation... for the most part. Audra seemed to have limited tolerance for being in the water, especially if I was in sight and not holding her at all times. And especially since we made her wear a hat. She was not a fan. She also didn't walk right off the end of the dock as we suspected she would, but we still made her wear a floaty suit too... for the most part.

[Showing off her farmer's tan]

And despite being on vacation at a lake, she actually didn't even go in the water for half the week. Audra had been diligently attempting to drink the lake water for the first couple of days, which may or may not have factored into the Exorcist-style vomit that made that Monday so very memorable in my mind (especially since lots of said vomit ended up on me). So yes, Audra's first time throwing up was a wretched experience for the both of us. Poor thing was so wiped out (since she threw up several times, and couldn't keep anything down) that she basically passed out on me a couple of different times throughout the day. I had been keeping her out in the screened porch in the evening for ease of cleanup, but finally moved her to bed (without her waking, despite how awkwardly I got her there), where she didn't move a muscle for hours. Sadly enough, that was probably her best night of sleep for the week, which was pretty dreadful besides that - perhaps a combination of sleeping away from home for the first time and the fact that the air conditioning wasn't working properly for most of the week seemed to lead to lots and lots of waking.

Since we didn't know what caused her to throw up, I kept her out of the water for the next few days in case it was from that, and then we were even more careful with trying to block her from drinking the lake water after that. Besides that, it was a fun week - she had lots of fun playing with her cousins, and learned lots of new words, like hat, cat, Riley, Taylor, yes, ball, Mimi, Papa, eyebrow. For a brief moment in time, she'd also yell "whyyyyy????" whenever she'd get upset (usually with her hands upturned too), which I'm only a little bit sorry to say I found absolutely hilarious. What was even more hilarious is learning what she was actually saying. One of the times she threw up, I immediately called out to Ryan for help, and when she joined me in yelling for him, I realized that yes, she was actually saying her version of "Ryaaaaan!!!" instead of "why". So apparently we both yell for Ryan when we're upset, and I'm not quite sure what to make of that.
[The overturned-bench was only partially successful in stopping her from going up the stairs]
[Finding a cool place to sit when the a/c wasn't working]
[Cleaning up]

Before vacation completely hosed her sleeping, Audra was pretty consistently down to waking only 1-2 times a night. She was able to fall back to sleep overnight without needing to nurse every time, sometimes on her own without my assistance, sometimes with some shushing and my hand on her to resettle her. Naps have gotten pretty annoying, though. She doesn't always fall asleep after nursing now, so sometimes trying to convince her to go to sleep takes most of the afternoon. She didn't even nap one day at daycare, which was quite apparent when she fell asleep on me in the evening, and then screamed when we got her up to get her ready for bed :-\ Another time, she was awake after nursing, and just hung out in bed with me while I was playing on my phone (trying to wait her out), before she eventually fell asleep on my shoulder, cuddling the alarm clock.

Audra can now identify a few more body parts (like belly button and feet), and can also identify several more animals. She says bird, woohoo, hoohoo (for owls), banana, apple, night (for "good night"), eww (when we change her diapers), elbow, knee, eye, milk, cup, off, car, hot. My favorite is that she tries to say "Josie" now, although it usually comes out more like "Jojo" or "Joju" :) She very seriously informed me that giraffes say "ca! ca! CAA!", and appears to have a couple of default words, since every animal is a turtle (according to her), and every command is "up". She is also quite good at matching, and likes to point out when there are matching pictures in books, often flipping back and forth between pages that have the same characters or animals on them.

Audra has been very sweet lately, and has been loving (slash clingy), and really enjoys hugging my legs at the most inopportune times ;) She likes to keep me on my toes with how she wakes me up, once immediately giving me a kiss when she awoke, once poking me in the eye and announcing "eye!". She also likes to cover her mouth/face to laugh, which is just adorable, and she gives hugs and kisses to her books. We play a super fun game I like to call "The Blinking Game", which consists of us blinking at each other and laughing. She also loves to stand and bounce on the footrest when I'm sitting in the recliner, then bounces on her bum on the arm, and finishes by flinging herself over me. Meanwhile, I love her super enthusiastic greetings in the evening when she yells "dada" at me ;)

[I find this strange little nose-scratching game particularly adorable]

And if she isn't having a particularly pleasant moment, then almonds still work like a charm. We just need to whisper "do you want an almond?" in her ear, and Audra will immediately stop crying and head straight for the pantry, waiting (somewhat) patiently for her almonds ;)

Audra had another trip to the pediatrician, as we're still trying to catch up on her shots. She got her final dose of the Pc vaccine, and yet again, was very good and cooperative and barely flinched when she got her shot. She is remarkably stoic at times ;) All of her cuspids are also apparently about to come through. She cut her right lower cuspid, but all of the rest are just bulging below the surface at this point.

Audra had a fantastic time at Josie's birthday party. She didn't cry at all, despite me only holding her (and then handing her off almost immediately) a few times, and she was just dancing, playing in the pool, and having fun with everyone who was watching her. Audra did grab my hand during cupcake time, led me from the garage, up the stairs, and around to the new geo-dome (Josie's present from us). She then climbed right inside and started dancing, and kept peeking her head out of each triangle to say hi to me :) I finally had to interrupt her dancing and grab her to get back to the party, but it was a fun interlude from all the chaos :)

Miscellaneous cuteness:

[Pulling her own hair]

[Dirty baby feet]

Friday, September 4, 2015


In June, we were all very excited to welcome my new nephew Benjamin to the family :) The blonde hair reigns again, and I was floored by how much he looked like my brother... although now that I look at these pictures again, I see far more Emily in Benjamin now than I did at first. Either way, he's absolutely adorable and so sweet. <3
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Speaking of birthdays, Josie was extremely excited about her own. She loved her birthday invitations, although, note to self: hand-writing all the invitations is not a winner (it took hours). We ended up inviting all of the kids in her Pre-K1 class before the end of the school year, and then the new kids who moved into her class at the start of summer, plus other friends and family... so, yes. Lots of invitations. And then Josie took it a step further, and basically every day after we distributed the invitations she came up with "cards" to give to her friends, or endlessly created lists of everyone she wanted to invite to her party.

One of her friends had a pool party to mark the end of the school year, so we all went to that and had a great time. It's so crazy to me to see Josie gradually getting more independent, and that was quite apparent when Josie went off to play with her friends and rarely needed our attention at all. She was much more hesitant with trying to swim, though - while she had gotten much more comfortable being in the water after her pool-intensive February, it took some cajoling this time for her to put her face in the water or jump in (with assistance). We had hoped to have her closer to swimming before our lake vacation in July, but I guess we'll just have to take it that she's more comfortable in the water at the same time that she at least seems to know her limitations better.

On a related note, we got out the cot for her to try sleeping on before we brought it to the lake, thinking that Josie would just sleep on it for a night so we could make sure it was comfortable enough for her and that she'd stay on it. Instead, she apparently loves it enough (or perhaps it's more that she's able to sleep in Ryan's room with him) that she has slept on it every.single.night since then.

It appears that Josie is completely done with napping at school; she has even been moved to the "non-napping" side of the room :-\ And after telling us what we wanted to hear for a while, she now is readily offering up that she did not, in fact, nap at school. Like one evening when I asked her if she took a nap after she started crying when I wouldn't let her bring a snack home from school, and she said no, then wailed "I only take a nap at hoooooome", and threw herself in my arms in despair. She went to bed an hour early that night.

After several weeks of seeming like she was done with sucking her thumb for good, she started sucking it again on occasion. It seems to have coincided with the end of the school year/beginning of summer, when most of the kids in her Pre-K class graduated and the Preschool kids moved into her class. She seemed to regress for a couple of weeks, with not using her words and just crying instead when she's upset, singing instead of being quiet when asked, refusing to participate in activities, and, of course, sucking her thumb. I suspect that was just due to the changes at school and her new classmates needing to get used to the rules and routines in Pre-K, and she's doing a lot better now.

[She has important animal organizational work to do at school]

Josie rather astutely pointed out that she never gets angry, which, after I thought about it more, seems to be pretty accurate. Sometimes she gets a little mad, but it's so short-lived -- and a lot of the times she's just pretending to be mad -- that it hardly seems to count. Instead, she just gets sad and cries pretty easily, but yeah. She is a pretty happy and goofy kid :) She's also getting more affectionate with Audra, hugging her and linking arms with her. Josie also stroked her face and told Audra that she was so sweet... which prompted me to tell Josie the same thing :)

Josie discovered her new favorite "sauce" that she likes to douse her food in: olive oil and vinegar. She requests salad quite frequently, and while at first it was almost entirely due to the toppings (e.g., almonds, cranberries, etc.), it seems to have shifted somewhere along the way to her really liking the dressing. So her poor salads tend to be swimming in olive oil and vinegar, but she eats it all... and then drinks the remainder from the bowl.

We all went to an animal park, which was also pretty fun. Josie ran off and made friends, hanging around on the different play trains and ships they have there, and spent a decent amount of time in the moonbounce. She also proved to be rather resourceful - I didn't want to shell out for the cup of animal feed, but she quickly realized that mounds of the feed were around each of the enclosures where the animals/kids had dropped them.... so she scooped them up and got to feed the animals herself ;) We also rode on a camel together. I don't know if I'm slightly proud or embarrassed that the picture below seems to show that I had proper equitation even on a camel ;)

Silly Josie-isms for the month:
  • She's learning about copying other people, so she likes it when we repeat things after each other.... except I found it hilarious when she asked me to ignore her when she actually meant for me to copy her. I was like, "you have a deal - done". ;)
  • Somewhere along the line, she learned the concept of being "over the hill", and asked me if my Nana had been over the hill, and if I was too. I guess I'm getting closer to it, but I don't need the reminder quite yet!
  • She lost a little toy monster on the playground at school (after burying it under the mulch), and while she apparently cried a lot about it at the time, she told me when I picked her up that evening that she was sad but she knew it was her "responsibility". Aww.
As an update for the house and garden, Ryan built another terrace in the front of the house, and then moved the blueberries to their permanent home there. With the fence, the small area, and how close to the house it is, we're hoping that all will be enough to deter the deer. Ryan has also been gathering rocks from around the area, and we're planning on the front part being sort of a rock garden, eventually with more plants in there too (we're counting on some mint to take care of filling in the gaps). To be honest, I wasn't too sure about the rock garden at first, but we've added a bit more since these pictures, and with the addition of some dark mulch, I think it looks pretty sharp.... and will hopefully require hardly any maintenance ;)

Apparently one of our biggest (literally) crops for the year was marigolds. We had planted marigolds before at our last house and those only grew to about 5-6 inches. We expected that they would do slightly better in our garden now, since they were planted in almost pure compost, but they well exceeded that expectation: over the course of the month, they grew from nothing (as seen in the first picture below) to several feet high. Lesson learned, and next year we will not be planting them in the raised beds; they ended up taking so much space and shaded the other plants too much. I had also planted them as trap crops to try to attract the pests (i.e., Japanese beetles, the current bane of my existence), and while they were certainly overrun with them, I'm not sure if they were luring the bugs away from our other crops or just attracting them to the general area. We'll do some experimentation with the placement of the marigolds next year to see if maybe that makes a difference with how bad the bugs eat all the leaves on our other plants.
[As it turns out, I love having this view from the kitchen window]

[From left to right, by bed: lettuce, marigolds; kale, squash; edamame, swiss chard]
[From left to right, by bed: tomatoes, sugar beets, a couple of cabbage, green beans, nasturtiums]

The kids seem to like the garden too. Josie helped me plant quite a few seeds and label the rows (although Audra promptly removed all of the markers), and they both help harvest: Josie can pull off the beans at least, and Audra pulls off all the leaves ;) There is something gratifying about growing our own food though, seeing the progress from planting seeds to being able to eat it, straight from the garden. We've even found that the kids are more likely to eat certain vegetables if they're fresh (even better if the kids are able to pluck them straight from the plant themselves), and one evening we positively gorged ourselves on fresh green beans.

We also finally decided to do something about the collapsed greenhouse, and we had the guy who helped finish our basement come out to dismantle the first greenhouse and start building a new one. Hopefully this one will stay up for longer than a couple of months ;)

Oh, and I finally got my hair cut, for the first time since Audra was born. I think this was a new record for me - it had been 16 months since my last cut ;)

Miscellaneous cuteness:
[Ryan's down for the count]
[The picture of a house Josie drew for her cousin Benjamin]
[Artwork from school - I love the giraffe's jaunty smile :)]